:Part of a successful marriage is about compromise and she
doesn't sound too compromising.I'm in the same boat as him. Infact, I think I'm a few
miles ahead of him in the same waters. I havent spent a
dime on my Z in over two years. (it hasn't even been
driven in that long either) However, I chose to spend my free time with my wife and
kids. But ditching your wife while having small
kids (such as Rojo) is completely selfish in itself.
Specifically, if I work 10-14 a day, she's without adult
conversation or help for that long. For me to come home
and say, "I'll be in the garage" is ultimately childish and
selfish. Sure, life needs balance, but being considerate
of your mate is a whole other deal. I *hate* that I do not have the time to PLAY with my toys.
But I'm raising kids and trying to have fun with it. Kids
are fun, but they're a shit ton of work. I feel guilty
after an easy day at work, knowing the crap she's had to
endure. So when I get home, I make an effort to make her
evening a little easier. I'm with you Rojo, but I don't have an answer for you. IMHO.
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